Tree of life

Decent work in a better-paid and often hidden ring after paying a lot of untold and hardships, in the end, people always suspect that his choice No Yes right.

Person's life is in constant and continuous choice options before the judge on the process. Perhaps a little choice in life to change the rest of your life, like DMD in the decision tree, until finally, if the spread this decision diagram, you may find that your current state or the path you have chosen have been the original from your initial farther; or can be said that the path you choose is not currently one of the most optimal way. If you get down to actually find you the road is the path of many decision-making among the worst one, this time, you will be scared into a cold sweat.

But the fact is difficult to say whether you choose the perfect or the worst. There are several reasons why you can not tell you the results of Yang is the best or the worst:

1. The individual evaluation criteria are inconsistent. 10 years ago after 10 years you and you are judged on the success may be totally different, just as investment banks left Zengzi ink.

2. Community judged inconsistent. China's reform and reform of the early post-recognition of self-employed community is completely different from; this two-day online again that the Japanese women are racing to women in the Ginza as wine server, rather than do white-collar.

3. Tree is dynamic, not static. When you draw your life after 10 years of the decision tree, you are At this moment of rest from your starting position drawn. This means that at that time chose A C after the results and chose B after C results may be completely different. On the whole point of view, each point of the change will affect the whole. It is precisely because a number of years on earth all the common behavior of mankind has created a state here and now, If we had any small change will make possible the state at this time is completely different.

Here, we seemed to be derived several successful life or the life of a successful concept:

1. A Q-type, that is to forever believe that the present choice is his choice among the best. Ah Q is a real happiness, because due to his ignorance or because of his superficial knowledge, he never thought that their choice is the best, he knows no other choice, the results of the benefits and beauty. Another is a natural motivator, such people think that the current grasp is the best reason why you come to the present state of all the factors working together as the result, because of your judgments, because a friend of , due to social pressure, due to impulse, due to weather, due to government policy, in short you are pushing the role of various factors to the current state, so your choice is the only way is best.

2. According to their standards change (or awareness-raising) and the decision-making behavior of their amendments. The so-called live and learn, the so-called spiral up, the so-called "no different to fulfill the original line of office, only the original journey with different people," the state, in the process of life to constantly modify their goals in life or success, keep amendments to their own choices to achieve their ultimate goal.

3. Single-mindedness faith in your life and values, rather than the influence of change for others. Even if ultimately not reached the view that the success of the secular, but in his view he is the harvest process, not results. Uphold the dream may be more important than the realization of dreams, and more on spiritual and cultural value. For such people, the path of his own choosing outside the path is dismissive.



The first one, we could call it thoroughly aware of the practitioner (aside real Ah Q).

Second, we can call it smart practitioners.

Third, we can call devout dreamer.

The second person in the real world is the largest. These three people are successful in our view, but in the eyes of God or the Buddha do? Maybe in their eyes, not the word success. In their eyes, may be justified even more important, just as Hegel's romantic declaration "Where there is reasonable."



Choice, is the eternal topic of human.

How to choose, it is intractable human problems.

Face numerous choices in life, how would you choose? ... ...